Skill Up, Not Just Show Up: Rethinking Career Growth in Today’s Economy

In today’s ever-changing economy, navigating your career path can feel more overwhelming than ever. Layoffs, hiring freezes, industry pivots—it’s a lot to process. If you’re at a crossroads and considering a career change or simply looking for something new, I want to share one powerful piece of advice that completely shifted how I view career growth:

👉🏾 Stop focusing so much on job titles. Start focusing on your skills.

We often scroll through job boards looking for titles that match our current or past roles—“Marketing Manager,” “Project Coordinator,” “Executive Assistant”—but we forget to ask the most important question:
What skills do I actually have, and how can I use them in new and exciting ways?

Focusing on job titles alone can limit your opportunities. Titles don’t always tell the full story of what a job entails. However, when you shift your mindset and start analyzing the skills listed in job descriptions, you might realize you’re already more qualified than you thought—or that you’re just a few learnable steps away from your next big opportunity. FAMILY AND CAREER: CAN YOU HAVE BOTH?

For example:
A job labeled “Digital Marketing Analyst” might sound intimidating, but if you already have skills in content creation, data interpretation, social media, and SEO, you’re well on your way.

Think of your skills as currency in today’s market. The more you have—and the more adaptable they are—the more options and freedom you create for yourself.

Here’s how to start building and strengthening your skills:

Take free or low-cost online courses on platforms like Coursera, LinkedIn Learning, or YouTube.
Volunteer for new responsibilities in your current role to stretch and grow.
Watch how-to videos, read blogs, or attend webinars on topics that interest you.
Keep a “skill journal” to track the tools, programs, or soft skills (like communication and time management) you’re using and improving.
Join communities or networking groups where you can learn from others and share knowledge.

The more skills you develop, the more flexibility you gain. You’re not bound to one title or one industry. You’re equipped to pivot. That kind of freedom is empowering, especially in uncertain economic times.

When you build your skill set, you start choosing jobs based on alignment with your lifestyle, values, and growth—not just survival.

If you’re feeling stuck, uncertain, or discouraged about your career right now, please know:
You are not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience.

Every job you’ve ever worked has taught you something. Every life experience you’ve had has shaped your perspective. You already have value—now it’s time to invest in expanding it.

So the next time you search for a job, read beyond the title. Look at the description. Ask yourself:
✨ Do I have these skills?
✨ Can I build the ones I don’t?

Then go out and build your career around what you can do, not just what you have done.

Journal Prompts to Support Career Growth:

What are five skills I currently have that I enjoy using?
What skill have I always wanted to learn but haven’t started yet?
What part of my current (or past) job do I feel most confident in?
What industries or jobs interest me that I’ve never explored?
What’s one new skill I can commit to learning this month?
Who in my network is in a role I admire, and what skills do they have?
How do I define career success for myself—not by society’s standards?
What would it look like to create a job based on my skills instead of titles?
What transferable skills do I have that could apply to multiple fields?
What is one small step I can take today to grow professionally?

“Your skills are your superpower. Grow them, stretch them, share them—and watch your opportunities grow too.”

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

The Beauty of Genuine Friendships: Quality Over Quantity

I stumbled upon a post today that said, “Strong friendship doesn’t need daily conversation.” It struck a chord because it perfectly describes the friendships I cherish most. I don’t have a squad or a dozen people on speed dial. I have two. Yes, just two. Two amazing women I call my besties, ride-or-dies, and forever girls.

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And guess what? We don’t talk every day—or even every month sometimes. Life keeps us busy with kids, careers, families, and that delightful visitor named Peri (if you know, you know). But here’s the thing: whenever we do talk, it’s like no time has passed. We pick up right where we left off, jumping right back in where we left off, into our rhythm of mutual understanding, love, and care.

In a world that often emphasizes quantity, it’s refreshing to focus on the quality of relationships. It’s not about how many friends you have but about having friendships that feel like home. The kind where silence isn’t awkward, time apart isn’t a measure of worth, and the bond isn’t broken by busy schedules.

Genuine friendships are built on trust, respect, and an unspoken agreement that life happens. There’s no guilt about time passing or pressure to explain yourself. There’s simply love. Girlfriends…Why We Need Them

Why Genuine Friendships Matter

Support Without Strings: True friends understand that life ebbs and flows. They’re there when you need them without keeping score.
Mutual Respect: Genuine friendships are rooted in understanding and honoring each other’s time and commitments.
Emotional Safety: With real friends, you can share your highs, lows, and everything in between without fear of judgment.
Connection That Lasts: These relationships stand the test of time and distance because they’re built on a solid foundation.

Friendship Goals

The goal isn’t to have a massive circle but to nurture the connections that matter. It’s about having people in your life who see you, value you, and celebrate you for who you are. Whether you have one friend, two, or ten, the focus should always be on authenticity.

If you’ve felt guilty for not texting back or calling more often, give yourself grace. Life is messy and busy, and the people who truly love you understand that. And if you’ve been longing for deeper friendships, remember: it’s not about having more—it’s about finding the right ones.

Invest in the friendships that feel good to your soul. Be the friend who shows up when it matters, listens without judgment, and loves unconditionally. And never underestimate the power of a quick “thinking of you” text—it can bridge the gap of time and space in the most beautiful way.

Friendship isn’t about daily conversation or constant contact. It’s about connection, understanding, and love that transcends time and distance. Whether you have one close friend or a small circle, cherish them. And always remember, it’s better to have a few genuine friendships than a sea of surface-level connections.

Here’s to friendships that are real, lasting, and life-giving. 💕

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

Your Life, Your Way: Embracing Your Perfectly Imperfect Routine

The other day, I came across a video of a woman sharing her “morning routine” for her first day back to work after maternity leave. She had a toddler, a baby, and a 13-year-old bonus daughter. In the video, her morning flowed seamlessly: waking up at 5 a.m., praying, journaling, working out, having a calm breakfast, and getting everyone ready—all before heading out the door by 7 a.m.

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It looked flawless. Too flawless.

As a mom of three myself, I couldn’t help but laugh. My mornings? Let’s just say they don’t resemble a polished reel or video. Even with the best intentions and a 5 a.m. alarm, my mornings often involve unexpected spills, missing shoes, last-minute snacks, and a chaotic yet beautiful rush to get everyone out the door.

Here’s the thing: videos like that? They’re entertainment. They’re edited. They’re curated to inspire, sure, but also to impress. And that’s fine—as long as you don’t start comparing your reality to someone else’s highlight reel.

Because here’s the truth: your life, your routine, and your way of doing things are perfect for YOU.

Why Your Life Is Enough

You don’t need a perfectly lit video or an hour of “me time” in the morning to feel like you’re thriving. Your mornings might be messy, unpredictable, or even downright chaotic, but that doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re living a life that’s real, honest, and uniquely yours.

Instead of striving for someone else’s version of perfection, focus on these truths:

Your Routine Is Yours
Maybe you wake up early, or maybe you’re still half-asleep while wrangling the kids. Either way, you’re showing up for your family and yourself in the best way you can.
Life Happens in the Messy Moments
The spilled coffee, mismatched socks, and rushed hugs before running out the door? That’s the good stuff. Those are the moments that make your life uniquely beautiful.
You’re Enough As You Are
Whether you have time to journal and pray in the morning or you’re squeezing in a quick moment of gratitude while packing lunches, you’re doing amazing. Your efforts, big or small, are enough. Win the Day: Celebrating Your Daily and Weekly Victories

When you see those picture-perfect routines online, remind yourself: they’re not realistic. They’ve been edited and carefully curated. Your life isn’t a show; it’s a journey, and it doesn’t need to look flawless to be meaningful.

So, give yourself grace. Celebrate your wins, no matter how small. Find joy in the little moments—even the chaotic ones. And most importantly, live your life in the way that feels best for you.

Your mornings, your routine, and your life are already perfect—because they’re YOURS. Keep going, mama. You’ve got this. 💕

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

Finding Joy In Authentic Living

This past weekend, my husband and I celebrated 18 years of marriage, and like clockwork, everyone who knew about it asked the same question: “So, what are y’all going to do to celebrate?” I get it—when people think of anniversaries, they often picture grand gestures like dressing up for a fancy dinner, jetting off for a quick vacation, or throwing a big party with family and friends. While that sounds great for some, we chose to do it our way, just as we’ve done throughout our marriage.

Instead of following the traditional “anniversary script,” we spent the day doing all the things we love doing together. It wasn’t flashy or over-the-top—it was simply us. And that’s the beauty of it: whether it’s an anniversary, a milestone, or just a regular day, the secret to happiness is living life your way.

Whenever someone asks us what the secret to our lasting marriage is, we always tell them the same thing: do it your way. Trying to live your life, marriage, or any relationship by what society says you should do just doesn’t work. Life isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. What brings one person joy may not bring the same sense of fulfillment to another, and that’s perfectly okay.

The truth is, there’s no “right” way to live. The pressure to conform to societal expectations can be overwhelming. You’re supposed to follow the timeline, hit all the traditional milestones, and do things the way everyone else does. But here’s the thing: living your life by someone else’s standards won’t make you happy.

Whether it’s celebrating our anniversary, making decisions about family, or handling life’s challenges, we’ve always found joy and peace in doing things our way.

Living life your way isn’t just about making yourself happy—it’s about living authentically. When you stop trying to meet everyone else’s expectations and start embracing what truly makes you feel fulfilled, everything changes. You’re more at peace, less stressed, and more confident in your decisions.

5 Simple, Yet Powerful Benefits of Living Life On Your Terms

There is joy in authenticity.
You live free from expectations.
You are able to build stronger relationships.
Great confidence booster.
Maintain your self respect.

The idea that you have to follow a certain path to live a happy, fulfilled life is outdated. The truth is, there are no rules. You don’t have to do what everyone else is doing to find joy. You don’t have to follow a checklist or meet certain milestones by a certain age. You’re free to design your life in a way that works for you.

This is the message I want to share with anyone reading this: Live life your way. Don’t let societal pressures or other people’s opinions dictate how you should live and celebrate. Whether you’re celebrating 18 years of marriage or making a big life decision, remember that the only opinion that truly matters is yours. Embracing the Detours of Life: When Plans Go Off Course

As we celebrated our anniversary doing all the things we love together, I was reminded once again of the power of living life on your terms. It’s not about what others expect—it’s about what feels right to you.

So, the next time you feel pressured to conform or follow someone else’s idea of happiness, remember this: you don’t have to. Live life your way, celebrate your way, and enjoy your journey your way. There’s no better way to find joy, fulfillment, and peace than by being true to yourself.

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

Navigating Anticipatory Anxiety: A Family Vacation Story

Here we go, family vacations—a delightful mix of excitement, bonding, and, if you’re anything like me, a healthy dose of anticipatory anxiety. I’m about to embark on a trip with my brother and mom. I agreed primarily because my brother really wants me there, and spending quality time with family is self care. But as the weekend date nears, my brain has been running non-stop scenarios about how the trip “will” go down.

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It’s no secret that my mom and I have an, lets say, interesting relationship. She adores my brother and often makes it clear in ways that can poke at our sibling dynamics. So naturally, I’ve been imagining all the conversations and interactions that are sure to happen. It’s like having a Netflix binge-watch marathon in my head, only with way more drama and fewer commercial breaks.

Just as I was spiraling into a mental shutdown, like about to cancel, I stumbled upon the term “anticipatory anxiety.” Bingo! That’s exactly what I’ve been experiencing. Anticipatory anxiety is that nagging worry about future events, fearing that things may go wrong or that you won’t be able to handle what comes your way. Basically, it’s stressing out about stressing out.

Here’s the funny thing: I was having anticipatory anxiety about a vacation! A VACATION. The one time you’re supposed to relax and have fun. It suddenly clicked—I was more worried about what could go wrong than focusing on the potential for a good time. My mother may just decide to be on her best behavior. After all my brother will be there, and she doesn’t say her snarky comments, or be passive aggressive in front of him. She must appear perfect to him.

So, I had a little pep talk with myself: “Get over yourself. Go have a good time. Let her be. Set boundaries if needed, but don’t let your fears, anxiety , and mother for goodness sake ruin what could be a great trip.” I still can have my boundaries that I’ve set in place no matter how close in quarters we are.

Set Boundaries:
Even on vacation, it’s okay to set boundaries. If mom starts to poke, I know how to shut it down at the onset. Leave the room or get in my car and go. And lastly, my favorite, completely ignore and block her out. WELLNESS: EVEN THE STRONGEST NEEDS A BREAK

Stay Present:
Try to focus on the moment rather than what might happen. Enjoy the scenery, the activities, and the quality time with your brother. My main concern is supporting my brother at his event.

Humor Helps:
Find the humor in the situation. Laugh at the absurdity of it all—after all, family dynamics can be pretty entertaining when you take a step back. In doing my healing, I know that she has unhealed trauma. So that allows me to give her some empathy.

Self-Care:
Don’t forget to take care of yourself. Whether it’s a quiet walk, a good book, or a quick meditation session, make time for things that help you relax. Not to mention I’ve got pretty good at zoning out to center myself in a room full of people.

So, here’s to the upcoming trip! I’ve decided to embrace the adventure, anticipatory anxiety and all. After all, vacations are meant to be an escape from our daily worries, not an extension of them.

Wish me luck, and if you see me laughing in the corner, just know I’m probably finding the humor in my own overactive imagination. Lastly, I’m anxious to see just how far I’ve come in this healing journey. How I navigate this will let me know where to put in more work. Here’s to a fun-filled, boundary-setting, anxiety-busting family vacation!

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

5 Things I Do To Break The Parenting Cycle

Parenting is a journey of growth and reflection. As parents, we often find ourselves looking back on our own childhoods, contemplating what we wish had been different, and striving to create a better environment for our children. As I prepare to send my first born off to college reflection as a parent is holding me hostage. Here are five key things I allow my kids to do that I couldn’t, and how these changes are fostering a healthier, more supportive family environment.

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1. Allowing Them to Have Their Own Emotions

Growing up, emotions were often considered inconvenient or unwelcome. Or simply put, you are a child and children aren’t allowed to have “attitudes “. There was little room for expressing feelings, and we were often expected to suppress them. I’ve made a conscious decision to allow my children to have their own emotions. They are encouraged to express how they feel, whether it’s happiness, sadness, anger, or fear. Emotions are a natural part of being human, and by allowing my kids to feel and express them, I’m helping them develop emotional intelligence and resilience. Most importantly as they all have reached teenagers, I learn immensely from them. GROWTH BEGINS WITH UNLEARNING

2. Encouraging Genuine Expression

Not only was I not allowed to express my emotions freely, but sometimes I was even told how to feel or think. This invalidation of personal experience can be deeply damaging. As you grow and heal you have to learn that your feelings and emotions are valid. I ensure that my children know their feelings are valid and important. I listen to them without judgment and offer support rather than directives. This approach helps them trust their own emotions and thoughts, fostering a strong sense of self and emotional autonomy.

3. Allowing Them to Ask Questions

In my childhood, questioning authority or the status quo was often discouraged. Curiosity is a vital part of learning and growth, so I encourage my children to ask questions about the world around them. Whether it’s about school subjects, social issues, or our family’s rules, their inquiries are met with patience and respect. By encouraging their curiosity, I’m helping them become critical thinkers and confident individuals. This shows up when you go into the working world and not have the confidence to negotiate and you accept whatever is given.

4. Giving Them Space to Be Alone or Have a Bad Day

Everyone needs a moment alone sometimes, or simply has a bad day. Growing up, needing space or expressing discontent was often seen as problematic. I allow my children to take time for themselves when they need it and acknowledge that it’s okay to have bad days. This teaches them the importance of self-care and self-compassion, and it helps them understand that it’s normal to experience ups and downs. Ah, having three teenagers, I learned quickly to read their emotions and ask them “do you need a minute?”

5. Encouraging Good Grades, Not Demanding Perfection

Academic success was heavily emphasized in my upbringing, often to the point of demanding straight A’s. This created immense pressure and stress. With my children, I encourage them to do their best and to ask for help when they need it, but I don’t demand perfection. Good grades are important, but their mental health and well-being are paramount. By focusing on effort and improvement rather than perfection, I’m helping them develop a healthier attitude towards learning and personal growth. Each one of my kids are vastly different and learn differently.

Breaking the cycle of restrictive and emotionally stifling parenting practices is not easy, but it’s essential for fostering a healthier, more supportive family environment. By allowing my children to have their own emotions, encouraging genuine expression, supporting their curiosity, giving them space when needed, and focusing on effort rather than perfection, I’m creating a nurturing space where they can grow into emotionally intelligent, confident, and resilient individuals. Key word, “safe space.”

As parents, we have the power to change the narrative for our children. Let’s strive to create a world where they feel valued, understood, and free to be themselves. It’s a journey of growth for both parents and children, but the rewards are immeasurable. Together, we can break the cycle and build a foundation of love, respect, and support.

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

THIS IS WHAT FAITH, HOPE, AND BELIEF LOOKS LIKE

As I’ve progressed in my self awareness journey I’ve mastered the skill of being present in the moment and able to receive the messages as they come. If I ever have to question what faith, hope, and belief look like I witnessed it first hand. And more importantly there was action behind the belief.

As I sit and listen to her answer the question “So how is your mom doing?”, her voice doesn’t quiver. She doesn’t hesitate to say “it’s not the absolute worst nor is it better.” She confessed her mother had several mini strokes which led to her dementia. Then she delivered what faith, hope, and belief looks like: She said, “My hope is that mom has a final stroke and she goes in her sleep.”

Now on the surface you would clutch your pearls. But when you believe and have faith, you know living with a loved one who has no quality of life, has pain around the clock, loss of appetite, loss of movement in limbs, lack of awareness of themselves and loved ones, that isn’t the life you’d hope for for them. Yes, we want them around but at some point it becomes selfish. In result, whenever they do transition, we are left with the pain of what their last days reflected. MENTAL NOTE OF THE DAY

As she describes the emotional and physical toll it takes to care for her aging mother that has dementia, she’s still very self aware of her own needs. She told her mom, I have to go out and see people. She refuses to give up her life. Her hobbies, craft and book club weekly meetings. As well as church.

As she was speaking I could’t help but reflect on the countless family members and friends that gave up their life taking care of their loved one. After my grandma transitioned, all the arrangements and services were done, my mom sat at the table and said, “I don’t know what to do everyday.” Why? Because for months she gave up her entire being to take care of grandma.

Even in the midst of grief, her ability to have self awareness, emotional wellness, and boundaries inspired me to continue. We’re going to experience some raw emotions and experiences, but all the while it’s still priority to put ourselves first. No matter what the situation is, we are left with ourselves to move on.

Have faith, hope, and belief. Believe you have the power and strength to do all things and over come all things. Just because you’re having a hiccup doesn’t mean to lack self care. If anything, ramp it up.

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

FAMILY AND CAREER: CAN YOU HAVE BOTH?

This is something that I’ve been thinking about for awhile now. Can you have both: family and career. Some says yes and others says no. Both are full time jobs. Due to my husband position I was the one who had to be extremely flexible and sacrifice. With that being said, I knew I wanted to be present mentally and emotionally for my kids. I only have them for a short amount of time before they expand their wings and go on their own. Conversations with those of my generation, one of the common themes was lack of emotional support. Having a parent interested them, their thoughts, feelings, interest, views, likes, and dislikes.

I’ve watched some friends and family members raise their children completely different and saw outcomes that support both.

First we have the one parent that says I have to work and pay the bills. This parent works two jobs. By the time she gets home her children are in bed. She hasn’t seen them since they left for the school bus. She says they’ve text throughout the day and they are ok. Are they really? Also she believes they love hanging out with their friends and they don’t care if she goes to work. But for some reason one daughter is always calling her at work saying she’s sick. She wants her mom to come pick her up and stay with her at home. She sends dad.

She says they have everything they ask for. That’s why I’m working so much. I take them on a vacation every summer. We have a lake house. I have to work and have my life. She’s right. But is there a cost.

Then she says there’s no need to go to parent teacher conference. Her kids aren’t failing. She thinks her kids doesn’t want her at events, they don’t care. She and her husband told their son because they had to work 2 jobs he couldn’t join baseball because they couldn’t commit. 3 SELF CARE MISTAKES I MADE AS A STAY AT HOME MOM

On the other hand, we have the one who says I’m going to go to every event, game, show, award ceremony my kid have. I’ll live a subtle life to spend time with the kids. They don’t need name brand stuff all the time. She works just under 40 hours and leaves at 4pm because she says getting off at 5pm is too late for her to start her evening with the kids. They have TV shows they watch together. They eat dinner together. She’s the carpool mom and is very inquisitive about their friends and social life.

She says she’s being a concerned mom. She wants to know everything about them and be there for them. Is there a such thing as a helicopter mom?

Yes kids love having “stuff”. But at the end of the day they want mom or dad there. Not necessarily engaging, but available. They want that comfort and security of knowing you’re around. Or else the risk of the kids learning and finding their way without you can hurt them and the relationship.

No one can put 100% in two things. Being present physically, is different from being present mentally and emotionally. Kids really don’t care about the money.

A couple weeks ago my daughter had an award ceremony because she was nominated for Student Of The Month. During this ceremony there were also other awards given for different categories and grades. Sure the ceremony was on a Friday morning at 9am. They had coffee, donuts, milk and water for us to snack on with our kid until the ceremony started. We were able to mix and mingle with the other parents as well.

However, it broke my heart so bad that a couple of kids didn’t have parents to show. These were huge awards that all teachers and counselors voted on for a particular student. They were eating donuts alone. Looking so sad. At one point I even told my daughter to go tell one student to come sit with us. I just couldn’t help it.

When their name were called up, the counselor read the loving note from the teacher that nominated them. They received their award and took photos. The body language and the barely there smile killed me. At some point I heard a little guy say, my mom couldn’t come she had to work.

Yes you have to work. May not be able to get off every time. But unfortunately, the only things the kids see and remember is being alone at some pretty great moments. No material thing can get rid of that.

Of course, family dynamics, finances, and type of career makes a difference.

So can you really have it all? Family and Career.

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

WEEKLY BLOG: TYPICAL WORK WEEK

My intentions this week is to be in the moment, remain calm, and let things play out how they are supposed to.

Sunday: Very beautiful outside. Had breakfast with the kids and published WEEKLY BLOG: EASTER SUNDAY, LONG WORK DAYS, & SUMMER PLANNING. In the afternoon, I plan to post more listings on Poshmark and do a closet clear out. Later in the evening I will do my daughters hair and after that probably done for the day. Her hair takes me almost 3 hours to do. After spending 3 hours posting listings on Poshmark, I had to postpone doing my daughters hair. We capped the evening early with some double fudge brownies.

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Monday: Very brisk and cool morning. I’m am motivated today to get up and start the week. Before heading off to work I left a honey-do-list since the hubs was off. I had a very good day at the office today. Stayed a little late to help out the new agent. After having a snack and getting comfortable, I did my daugters hair. That took me to late evening. All I want to do is bathe and lay down.

Tuesday: Great sunny cool morning. Drop was amazing, had a great breakfast with the hubs, and was able to finalize some sales on Poshmark. Office time was great with the new agent. She’s adjusting very well and will fit in to the culture of our office. After work, we had some errands to run and finish finalizing a quick staycay for this weekend. The kids are ready to have some fun and relax. In the evening the hubs and I decided to have an impromptu date night. We both were feeling like we needed time to recoup, talk, and take a breather. Late night hours before bed I was in a mood to finish a couple loads of laundry. Eventually I decided to shower, cleanse my face, brush my teeth and head off to bed.

Wednesday: Busy morning due to a doctors appointment early. None the less, we got off to a great start and the adjustments worked out perfect. It’s very nice and warm out today before we head into days of thunderstorms. After work I decided to do a good mid week clean. We have some plans for Friday and Saturday so I wanted to make sure the house was together before the weekend. Also I’m so proud of myself for cooking two meals at dinner to help prepare me for tomorrow.

Thursday: Typical morning. I think we’re all ready for this year to be over with. I was busy today with errands before heading into the office. Training the new agent has been going very well. She’s open and receptive. Not too much going on after school. We’re expected to have a busy weekend. So relaxing tonight was all needed. I was feeling like I wanted to do alot so I decided to get on the treadmill to calm myself.

Friday: Humid, rainy, lightning, and thunder. Need I say more. It’s dark and I just want to go back to bed. However, school and work must go on. Because of the weather it was very quiet in the office. Once again, I was able to get much needed notes, proposals, and contracts done. After work and school we had a couple of hours before my son had to work movie night at the school. He’s a student ambassador so he’ll be working concession. Moving night turned out great even though they didn’t move it inside.

Saturday: Very busy morning. The boys went and got hair cuts. I also went to get my hair trimmed. Then we had to head off to a birthday party at the lake. The weather was perfect for a party out in the park on the lake. Then we ended up having a great long family outing afterwards. At the end of the night we were all tired and ready for bed. But it was a great full day.

Have a great week everyone!!!!!

P.S. Weekly blog is designed to show the realistic life of a mom balancing life, family, work, and herself.

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

WEEKLY BLOG: EASTER SUNDAY, LONG WORK DAYS, & SUMMER PLANNING

This week we are focusing on the end of the school year. What camps the kids are going to go to or if they want to go. Also because an agent left, I’m going to be working longer days until the new agent gets comfortable.

Sunday: Happy Easter!!!!!!! After getting in late last night from game night night, we showered and went to bed. My plans were to get up early and cook. I wanted to have dinner early and have a little time in the evening to relax before the work week. Because my kids are older some of the traditions we just don’t do anymore. I did get up early and have dinner ready by late afternoon early evening. We enjoyed more game night and then relaxed. The kids had a great time, enjoyed the food, and family. That is all that matters. We capped the evening off watching the NBA playoffs.

Monday: Finally a work day in which I don’t struggle to get up. Very brisk and cool this morning. Great start to a work week. Prepared to be at the office longer than usual this week. However, it made for a good day because I was busy all day. Dinner was simple because we had leftovers from Easter Sunday. After a long day and work out I was ready to turn in early.

Tuesday: I feel good this morning. I’m going to have a great day even though I will be at the office longer than usual. Had a good coffee date with the hubs this morning. And I had a chance to publish WHICH SELF CARE CATEGORIES ARE YOU DOING WELL IN?. It’s sunny but cool out. Until more storms tonight. Today we are planning our summer ”vacations”. We aren’t going to do a week long vacay anywhere. However, my family enjoys 3-4 day adventures to different cities and places. The kids have had a couple of request so we’re going to begin planning and prepping for that.

Wednesday: Cold rainy morning. Enjoyed coffee run with the hubs again, as we plan our son 16th birthday. Late last night we were successful in planning our summer plans and we wanted to begin the fall. Does anyone else do quarterly or seasonal planning? Sometimes we just like to have an idea or throw some things out there ahead of time. Couldn’t stay late at work today due to scheduling. Great evening with kids. It’s only 25 more school days and keeping them motivated is a challenge. But we’re getting through it.

Thursday: Very good journal writing session before heading off to work. I was feeling a little anxious. I have so much in my head I want to do or have started and exercising patience has been challenging. Even though I was very busy at the office today I was able to do some planning, create some ideas, and prepare for the second half of the year. After work, because it’s so beautiful out, I decided to walk outside. The calmness, clarity, and peace was amazing for me to have a great night in. Before bed, we finalized our plans for Mother’s Day.

Friday: Sort of busy this morning. With running errands and dropping off packages. Another long day at the office for me. Ready to check out for the weekend. Right now there isn’t too much planned for the weekend. I plan to do some work from home to get started on my summer goals and second half of the year goals. After work, which was a great day, my son tells me theres an event at his school he wants to go to. So now there is a wrench thrown in my plans. Also my aunt is leaving tomorrow so we were going to moms for the evening. WEEKLY BLOG: NEW PERFUME, DETOX, & VISIT FROM AUNT After dropping my son off, we headed to moms until the event was over.

Saturday: I have some plans to edit ideas and posts, as well as pictures for Poshmark. My aunt left early this morning and now I’m awaiting her safe call. It’s very nice outside so after work I plan to go out for a walk. Our Saturday was very chill relaxing. The hubs and I did some financial planning and discussed some things we wanted to do with the kids more. The kids opted to stay in and relax.

Have a great week everyone!!!!!

P.S. Weekly blog is designed to show the realistic life of a working mom balancing life, family, and myself.

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.