Skill Up, Not Just Show Up: Rethinking Career Growth in Today’s Economy

In today’s ever-changing economy, navigating your career path can feel more overwhelming than ever. Layoffs, hiring freezes, industry pivots—it’s a lot to process. If you’re at a crossroads and considering a career change or simply looking for something new, I want to share one powerful piece of advice that completely shifted how I view career growth:

👉🏾 Stop focusing so much on job titles. Start focusing on your skills.

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We often scroll through job boards looking for titles that match our current or past roles—“Marketing Manager,” “Project Coordinator,” “Executive Assistant”—but we forget to ask the most important question:
What skills do I actually have, and how can I use them in new and exciting ways?

Focusing on job titles alone can limit your opportunities. Titles don’t always tell the full story of what a job entails. However, when you shift your mindset and start analyzing the skills listed in job descriptions, you might realize you’re already more qualified than you thought—or that you’re just a few learnable steps away from your next big opportunity. FAMILY AND CAREER: CAN YOU HAVE BOTH?

For example:
A job labeled “Digital Marketing Analyst” might sound intimidating, but if you already have skills in content creation, data interpretation, social media, and SEO, you’re well on your way.

Think of your skills as currency in today’s market. The more you have—and the more adaptable they are—the more options and freedom you create for yourself.

Here’s how to start building and strengthening your skills:

  • Take free or low-cost online courses on platforms like Coursera, LinkedIn Learning, or YouTube.
  • Volunteer for new responsibilities in your current role to stretch and grow.
  • Watch how-to videos, read blogs, or attend webinars on topics that interest you.
  • Keep a “skill journal” to track the tools, programs, or soft skills (like communication and time management) you’re using and improving.
  • Join communities or networking groups where you can learn from others and share knowledge.

The more skills you develop, the more flexibility you gain. You’re not bound to one title or one industry. You’re equipped to pivot. That kind of freedom is empowering, especially in uncertain economic times.

When you build your skill set, you start choosing jobs based on alignment with your lifestyle, values, and growth—not just survival.

If you’re feeling stuck, uncertain, or discouraged about your career right now, please know:
You are not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience.

Every job you’ve ever worked has taught you something. Every life experience you’ve had has shaped your perspective. You already have value—now it’s time to invest in expanding it.

So the next time you search for a job, read beyond the title. Look at the description. Ask yourself:
✨ Do I have these skills?
✨ Can I build the ones I don’t?

Then go out and build your career around what you can do, not just what you have done.

Journal Prompts to Support Career Growth:

  1. What are five skills I currently have that I enjoy using?
  2. What skill have I always wanted to learn but haven’t started yet?
  3. What part of my current (or past) job do I feel most confident in?
  4. What industries or jobs interest me that I’ve never explored?
  5. What’s one new skill I can commit to learning this month?
  6. Who in my network is in a role I admire, and what skills do they have?
  7. How do I define career success for myself—not by society’s standards?
  8. What would it look like to create a job based on my skills instead of titles?
  9. What transferable skills do I have that could apply to multiple fields?
  10. What is one small step I can take today to grow professionally?

“Your skills are your superpower. Grow them, stretch them, share them—and watch your opportunities grow too.”

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

6 THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT SIDE HUSTLES BEFORE YOU BEGIN

If you’re looking to supplement your income most likely you’ve Googled or searched side hustles. If not, on every social media platform you are bombarded with people telling you how to make a $1000 a day. Side hustles have become vital avenues for those who are seeking financial independence, an additional stream of income, or to diversify their career. However, there are many things to know before starting immediately as most influencers will tell you.

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As someone who started their own blog, has been an Upwork freelancer, Poshmark seller, and freelance writer for other publications I’ve learned many lessons along the way. FINDING BALANCE IN LIFE: CAN YOU REALLY HAVE IT?

  1. Do your research. Whether you’re selling items, blogging, freelancing, or pet sitting, you need to spend time researching. One of the best tricks I do is read reviews and comments that aren’t highly regarded. For example, I’ll watch a negative review about Poshmark before I watch or read 10 articles of someone gloating about it. Things such as your username, thumb nail pic, photo, when you list or post, how you market yourself, the day and time you publish and the list goes on and on is vital to your success.
  2. Know Your Legal Risks. In every side hustle, there are legal risks. For example, if you do affiliate marketing there are legal risks for photos used and how you share links. As wells as the proper way to disclose the advert. Another example is if you are a pet sitter, and someone gets hurt on your watch you could be responsible for medical bills. Or if you are a ride share driver and get into an accident you could be liable for damages.
  3. Side Hustles Are A Real Business. So often you hear people say my hobby turned into a business. That’s true. You have to be passionate about your side hustle. However, it’s a real business that requires a great deal of planning. Most people will tell you to start today. Well, what’s your business plan? What are your expenses? Who is the customer, client, or target audience? What problem are you solving? If these questions aren’t thought out and answered you’ll find yourself blowing with the wind, losing money and motivation.
  4. You have to be tech savvy. Especially starting off and not wanting to spend or outsource on technology . You have to be your own marketing guru, troubleshooting tech, creative director, and so forth. Also technology is your best friend as it will give you the tools needed to stay organized and free some time up. Using automation, calendars, and apps to help propel your business. For example, there is an automation for me to share my listings instead of doing them myself. Automation for social media marketing frees up so much time. Use your tech wisely.
  5. Time management is key. You’ll often hear people say work your 9-5 and then spend 5-9 working your side hustle. Well everyone can’t do that. Growing any side hustle takes time, effort, and patience. You’ll want to create a schedule that’s realistic for you and your lifestyle. Knowing over time it may have to adjust or change. Going head first and giving up everything can result into burn out and other areas in your life lacking. However, if you just wing it and pour sprinkles into it you’ll get out of it what you put in.
  6. Side Hustles can take you down a bumpy road. Once starting your business know that circumstances out of your control will affect you. Always be in learning mode. Willing to expand your business model. And never give up. There will be times you question everything. But remember your why.

Side hustles are a great way to diversify your income, add extra money to your savings, and help you fulfill your dreams of being a business owner. As you begin it’s important to stay focused, informed, and be adaptable. You can avoid some common pitfalls by understanding the intricacies of legal requirements, time management, demand, and the market. All it takes is one step at a time. Good luck!!!!!!!

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

Why I’m not a fan of working a 9-5 job

The thought of doing the same thing over and over again for 40 years pains me to think about it. There are many reasons why I’m not fan of working a 9-5 job. I applaud those who sit at the same desk from the time they are 25 years old to 70 years old. On the other hand, I have a couple of questions, “Why and how did you do it.?”

The main reason why I”m not a fan of working a 9-5 job is because I need my brain stimulated. Doing the same thing over and over again everyday will make me bored very easy. I like to be challenged. The enjoyment I get out of problem solving and figuring things out, keeps me motivated. I guess that’s why accounting and numbers are my thing. Balancing books and figuring out that one number that’s off is my drug of choice.

Side Note: I know I promote and encourage a self care routine, but a routine that doesn’t allow me to expand or explore and wasn’t created by me isn’t a routine for me.

Another reason why I’m not a fan of working a 9-5 is there isn’t any flexibility. Because you go in at the same time everyday, sit at the same desk everyday, eat lunch at the same time, go home at the same time, and see the same coworkers, I begin to feel like the hamster on the wheel. My life as I know it is wasting away. After so long, I begin to feel like the value of what I have to offer is no longer a there. Therefore, the work become less exciting, the motivation to get it done isn’t as great, and eventually you begin to care less about production.

As a mom and wife, time for family life and handling business is little to none. The time you need to take care of certain business is during the time you’re at work everyday. Getting things done around the house is always a chore because of little time that’s available. Especially when you have kids that play sports. Your evenings are tied as well as your weekend. Not to mention, you only get one day on Saturday, because Sunday is spent getting ready for the week.

No matter how hard you work and your accomplishments, you are easily replaceable. You literally can die and they will begin looking to replace you immediately. They don’t care about you personally, even though you are spending more than 40 hours a week there. Let’s be honest, working a 9-5 your coworkers may know more about you than some family. They only care about what you can do for them.

Most of the time the company and their policies aren’t for the employees best interest. I’m not a fan of working a 9-5 and having myself or others feeling like a machine. It’s presented as such. However, the company number goal is to increase profit and maximize it with little expense. They cover themselves before you can even think of covering your behind. HR isn’t your friend. It’s the companies friend.

Final Thoughts

To give you some background, when I was in high school I thought I wanted to be a marketing consultant and a 9-5 was my destiny. However, as I got into college and began working and managing my class schedule, I knew a monotonous job and schedule wasn’t for me. I wanted to have the freedom to work and still live my life as I needed to. YOU CONTROL YOUR OWN DESTINY

Fast forward to after graduation and being a stay at home mom, I tried it, and I don’t like it. The office politics was just too much. The idea of being in the office for eight or nine hours was getting to me mentally. For starters, I knew I could be doing other things that needed to be done. Also doing something I actually loved and devoting my time to that. Finally I had too much down time, because once I was able to get into a routine and understand my duties I was able to complete them quickly.

Because of all the reasons above, the sheer motivation to get up every morning, get dressed, and have enthusiasm to get to the office just isn’t there. Why I’m not a fan of working a 9-5, I do believe you can achieve great success and results if you are efficient and proficient.

I am not a fan of working 9-5 and sitting around not doing much or being productive. Yes, I’ve heard people say “its easy money” but I don’t want easy money. I need and want to use my talents and gifts. I have a thing of needing to feel productive. Now if you’re a fan of a routine 9-5 system and it works for you that is amazing!!!!!!! I just need the flexibility to be creative, challenged, and motivated.

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.