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I’ve always found the question “What are you doing this weekend?” a bit burdensome. It seems to carry with it an expectation of grand plans or exciting adventures, when sometimes all I crave is quiet solitude or a chance to unwind without a set agenda. It can sometimes feel like a reminder of societal pressures to constantly fill our days with activities. So instead of dreading the question, I’ve learned to simply answer pleasantly, “absolutely nothing.” I’m not ashamed to say nothing, feel like I’m missing out, or not living.

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Let’s talk about the sheer joy of having weekends void of duties and itineraries! Ah, the feeling of waking up on a Saturday morning with absolutely nothing on your agenda except for indulging in whatever your heart desires. It’s a luxury we often overlook in our fast-paced lives, but oh, how rejuvenating it can be!

Imagine no alarms interrupting your precious sleep. No deadlines looming over your head, and no obligations pulling you in different directions. Instead, picture yourself leisurely sipping your favorite brew, whether it’s a steaming cup of coffee or a refreshing herbal tea, as you soak in the tranquility of the morning. I love waking up slowly, taking my time choosing which comfy outfit it will be for the day, and sipping my new favorite tea ginger and honey. 3 SELF CARE REMINDERS FOR THE WEEKEND

With your weekends free, you have the freedom to explore your passions and hobbies without any time constraints. Whether it’s immersing yourself in a captivating book, unleashing your creativity through art or music, or simply spending quality time with loved ones, the possibilities are endless. Or binging on that one show you’ve been recording.

And let’s not forget the joy of spontaneity! When you have no fixed plans, every moment becomes an opportunity for adventure. Maybe you’ll decide to try a new restaurant. After lounging for sometime, maybe you’ll decide to go visit someone, stop for ice cream, or take a walk in nature. The opportunities are endless.

But most importantly, having weekends free of duties and itineraries allows you to recharge and nourish your soul. In a world where busyness is often glorified, taking time to rest and rejuvenate is essential for your well-being. An unpopular opinion is that one of the best luxuries in life is to be able to relax not just body but mind as well. So, embrace the joy of free weekends, my friends, and let yourself relish in the simple joys of life. After all, sometimes the most fulfilling moments are found in the spaces between plans. 🌼✨

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.

Hello, there…it’s been a while since I last visited. Life is a world wind and it’s important to pause, breathe, and take a minute to self discover. We live in an insanely fast paced, social media, digital driven world that it’s often overlooked at how mundane ones daily life can be. True profound growth happens in moments of stillness. So what have I been doing?

Without question, focusing on my health. Although in my head I’m a young 20something, my body isn’t. One of my new year goals was to focus on my health. I understand maintaining great health between the ages of 45-50 is essential. Keeping up with doctor’s appointments and following up. When I see something or feel something I don’t just ignore it, I make an appointment to see my doctor. Going to the dentist and eye doctor was on my to do list as well. It’s better to be proactive than reactive.

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Along with going to the doctor, maintaining myself at home has helped me stay intentional and mindful. Eating with color. I’ve divulged in creating healthy homemade meals that focus on heart health, gut health, and ensuring myself and my family are eating healthier. Stretching morning and night has increased my overall health. Resting during the day has been one of the biggest benefits to my absence. Instead of coming straight in from work and doing work at home, I give myself a time off. Allowing myself to do what my body and mind wants to do and not over work it.

I can say my mental and emotional is at the best it’s been. I do understand it’s a journey and not a destination. Not just resting my body, but taking a moment to lie down in silence with just the sun peaking through for 15minutes helps me refocus and center my energy. The most important thing we can do in any situation is to stop and breathe. Nothing is ever so crucial that you need to respond or react instantly. 10 MENTAL HEALTH REMINDERS

Next, while on my hiatus, I was eliminating my screen time. Have you noticed there is a new trend, it seems, every other day. I’m talking about in fashion, beauty, tech, self care, money, relationships, and everything else you can think of. We have become so fixated on the trend that no one has any personal identity. Where’s the personal style? Everyone has the same “uniform” on when you go out. Beauty and skincare is no longer about personality and self expression. Who has the latest tech vice, that cost too much money. If you have a phone then you are a relationship guru. Even self care has seem to become a fad or gimmick.

If we aren’t careful, we will find ourselves down a path of confusion, lack of self awareness, and broke. Honey, keeping up with all these trends will drain your pockets. You don’t have to follow them. Wear what you want. Self expression is the best form of self care. It enables you to be your authentic self and not have the burden of being “in”. Save your money. Keep it simple and focus on what your body tells you it needs.

Lastly, I’ve been letting the universe tell me where to focus my energy. There have been times I’ve sat down to write and never posted. I wanted to be intentional about listening to my body and mind. I still want to encourage you all to believe in the dreams, goals, and ideas that have been placed in you. Take care of your mind, body, and spiritual health. Enjoy stillness and let life guide you. Become so self aware that you can be calm in the eye of the storm.