Hello, there…it’s been a while since I last visited. Life is a world wind and it’s important to pause, breathe, and take a minute to self discover. We live in an insanely fast paced, social media, digital driven world that it’s often overlooked at how mundane ones daily life can be. True profound growth happens in moments of stillness. So what have I been doing?

Without question, focusing on my health. Although in my head I’m a young 20something, my body isn’t. One of my new year goals was to focus on my health. I understand maintaining great health between the ages of 45-50 is essential. Keeping up with doctor’s appointments and following up. When I see something or feel something I don’t just ignore it, I make an appointment to see my doctor. Going to the dentist and eye doctor was on my to do list as well. It’s better to be proactive than reactive.

Along with going to the doctor, maintaining myself at home has helped me stay intentional and mindful. Eating with color. I’ve divulged in creating healthy homemade meals that focus on heart health, gut health, and ensuring myself and my family are eating healthier. Stretching morning and night has increased my overall health. Resting during the day has been one of the biggest benefits to my absence. Instead of coming straight in from work and doing work at home, I give myself a time off. Allowing myself to do what my body and mind wants to do and not over work it.

I can say my mental and emotional is at the best it’s been. I do understand it’s a journey and not a destination. Not just resting my body, but taking a moment to lie down in silence with just the sun peaking through for 15minutes helps me refocus and center my energy. The most important thing we can do in any situation is to stop and breathe. Nothing is ever so crucial that you need to respond or react instantly. 10 MENTAL HEALTH REMINDERS

Next, while on my hiatus, I was eliminating my screen time. Have you noticed there is a new trend, it seems, every other day. I’m talking about in fashion, beauty, tech, self care, money, relationships, and everything else you can think of. We have become so fixated on the trend that no one has any personal identity. Where’s the personal style? Everyone has the same “uniform” on when you go out. Beauty and skincare is no longer about personality and self expression. Who has the latest tech vice, that cost too much money. If you have a phone then you are a relationship guru. Even self care has seem to become a fad or gimmick.

If we aren’t careful, we will find ourselves down a path of confusion, lack of self awareness, and broke. Honey, keeping up with all these trends will drain your pockets. You don’t have to follow them. Wear what you want. Self expression is the best form of self care. It enables you to be your authentic self and not have the burden of being “in”. Save your money. Keep it simple and focus on what your body tells you it needs.

Lastly, I’ve been letting the universe tell me where to focus my energy. There have been times I’ve sat down to write and never posted. I wanted to be intentional about listening to my body and mind. I still want to encourage you all to believe in the dreams, goals, and ideas that have been placed in you. Take care of your mind, body, and spiritual health. Enjoy stillness and let life guide you. Become so self aware that you can be calm in the eye of the storm.

Until next time…Be well!!!!

RosalynLynn

Be you so you can be free.