Personal Growth · Personal Relationships · Self care

Keep Quiet On Your Next Move

I learned in my early teen years of telling someone what I was going to do, where I was going, or what I had, what I was planning, or what I was thinking. Keeping your next move or goal to yourself allows you to maintain power and control over it.

When we share our next move instead of keeping it to ourselves, we allow others to give their opinion, distract us from our goal, steal our joy and motivation. Before you know we won’t have a next move because someone has talked us out of it.

Keeping our next move to ourselves relieves us of the pressure to get it done faster, if we need to push the deadline back we can, and eliminates us having to answer questions about it all the time. How we go about making our dreams and goal come to pass is our business and no one else’s.

No one is going to be as excited as we are about our dream and its selfish to expect them to. Remember when we show others what they aren’t doing, they aren’t going to respond with grace and be happy for us.

To eliminate confusion, negative talk, or unwanted comments never announce your next move before its done.


Be you so you can be free.

One thought on “Keep Quiet On Your Next Move

  1. Well said friend!! I’m sure you are helping many others who are going back and forth with this same situation. You said it best people are not always going to be happy for you so to maintain your sanity and happiness sometimes it is just best to stay silent!!!


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