This is something many women do and don’t even realize it. We mask it in a form of asking people for their opinion but what we are really doing is seeing if said person think our idea is ok to proceed with.
What do you think about this outfit? I was thinking about doing…, I was going to dye my hair this color, I want to trade/buy a new car, I was thinking about moving, I want to start a business, I was thinking about going back to school, I really like him. These are all statements that we use when we are seeking someone’s permission or approval to move forward with something we desire. So often we look to receive that push to launch us forward.
First we need to remember whatever is placed upon heart and mind is ours and ours only. You don’t need permission from anyone to pursue what God has placed in you. The lens that you see through are a prescription for you and anyone who try to see through your lens their vision will be blurred.
You are you and that’s what make you unique.
Be you so you can be free.